-- What To Do If Your Ex Says There's NO CHANCE! What should you do if your ex says that’s absolutely NO CHANCE of getting back together with him or her?
How’s it going, guys… it’s Brad Browning here with another breakup video. And in this YouTube video, I’m going to respond to a question that a LOT of you guys seem to have. And that’s what to do when your ex says that you have absolutely NO chance of getting back together.
Now, if you’re watching this video right now, then I’m going to assume that you have every intention of getting back together with your ex. And I know how difficult it is to hear when your ex says this to you. But if you do NOT want to make that situation any worse, then you have to listen to every word in this video.
And I say this because I know you probably aren’t going to like it.
When your ex says that there’s no chance of getting back together… your best strategy is to BELIEVE THEM 100%. Even if you DO want to get back together with him or her, the best strategy moving forward is to move on with your life, date other people, and do everything in your power to make sure that you’re working on yourself.
Now before you close this video and discount everything I just said, keep in mind that there’s always a chance you could conceivably get your ex back – but I must say, if your ex has said that there’s no chance, then the chances of you getting back together with him or her is relatively slim. In fact, in MOST situations like this, I almost always recommend that you should be moving on with your life anyways. It just isn’t worth the effort to try and win your ex over again when they’re in such a stubborn position.
Here are some quick fire tips that you can do right now to sort of expedite this process…
1.) Go to the gym and focus on your fitness. Looking good will not only re-attract your ex, but other singles as well.
2.) Eat well. There’s no better time than now to focus on your health. You’ll look and feel better for it.
3.) Hang out with friends and family. Now’s a great time to reconnect with people you’ve spent little time with since your last relationship. Building social connections is incredibly important right now.
4.) Meet new friends. Make sure you’re putting an effort to join clubs, sports teams, or fun classes. Meeting new people is one of the best distractions.
5.) Focus on your career or school. Sure, it’s easy to mope around and feel sorry for yourself… but nothing productive will become of it. Focussing on things like work and school will have your future self thanking you… and your ex might even notice as well.
6.) Download Tinder and start dating. Don’t be too picky with who you date. Just go out, make friends, and have some fun.
7.) It’s okay to indulge in a little bit of alcohol if that’s your thing, but going down this road is unproductive and unhealthy. Instead, use your social life as a distraction instead.
8.) Pick up a new hobby. If you’ve always wanted to take up painting, now’s your chance to pick up that easel at the art store! Who knows, you might even meet someone there.
9.) Finally, and most importantly, do NOT under any circumstance contact your ex. No exceptions. If they’re willing to say something as extreme as “there’s no chance between us”, then you can bet that they probably don’t want to be talking to you right now. So leave it as that.
Of course this isn’t an exhaustive list of things to do in a situation like this. So if you feel like your situation is unique… or you really think that your ex didn’t mean what they said, then your best bet is to hire me as your breakup coach.
Before you get scared or think it’s too pricey, think again. For about the price of a cup of coffee a day, you can get me to be your email breakup coach. For more info, just head on over to BreakupBrad.com/coaching. That’s BreakupBrad.com/coaching… and on that page, you’ll find out how my coaching program works and if there’s room for you. And by the way, I’m almost always full, so if you DO see that there’s room available, then I implore you to sign up. You won’t regret it, and you’ll be given the guidance you need to live a happier life… I promise you that.
Anyways, that’s all for today! See you later, YouTube and thanks for watching!
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