Maybe your relationship is not working.
Maybe you are unhappy in your relationship.
After deciding you want to stay in the relationship (look up the useful relationship questionnaire I shared with you in my previous video), focus on how to repair a relationship when you no longer enjoy it. In other words, how to fix a relationship that no longer satisfies you. But only after you are 100% sure that this is what you want to do.
Then draw the line under your past, and focus only on here and now in the relationship. Stop the blame game in your relationship. What you want is peace and understanding in your relationship. And they can not happen by pointing the finger about the things from the past. Avoid fighting at any cost. Do not initiate it, and do not join in, if your partner tries to start one.
Fighting is often the graveyard of relationships.
Stick to this simple plan for 2 weeks. After 2 weeks review. And then decide your next steps. Maybe another 2 weeks? Maybe some adjustments to the plan? How much has it already worked? Are you amazed with how well it worked so far? If so, celebrate.
Here are 3 easy points from the plan you need to focus on for 2 weeks:
1. Put the other person first.
2. As your partner what they want from you, don't assume.
3. Dedicate yourself to your partner's needs.
Whatever the result, it will blow your socks off. Continue for another 2 weeks with adjustments, if necessary. Then review again, and continue.
New developments will come to life, relationship will probably develop in more ways than one. It might actually become better than it ever was.
Or it might become totally obvious to you that it is beyond saving.
Either way, you can move forward with confidence.
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